Lithosexual

Hey guys, gals and non binary pals! Today is the lithosexual day of Asexual Awareness Week.

Official definition: A person who experiences sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. Kaira's understanding of that definition: Meet Bob. Bob is a lithosexual. Bob is a lithosexual because:. I feel like sexual fantasies not experimental sexual fantasies, where you are only masturbating to it, to see if it does anything for you. I mean sexual fantasies that you KNOW you enjoy.

Lithosexual

Lithosexual also called Akoisexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. Someone who is lithosexual may experience sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. The lithosexual person may be uncomfortable at the thought of someone being sexually attracted to them, or they may lose their sexual feelings if they learn it's reciprocated. As such, lithosexuals do not feel compelled to seek out a sexual relationship. Like with any sexual orientation, lithosexuals can have any romantic orientation. Lithosexual can be a sexual orientation on its own or can combined with other orientations. For example, one could be lithosexual and gay, meaning that when one does experience sexual attraction it's only towards people of the same gender. Due to a claim of appropriating lesbian culture some people have attempted to replace the term lithosexual with akoisexual. This is due to the fact that litho- means "stone". In the lesbian community a stone lesbian is a lesbian who is okay with being the giver of sex acts, but not with being the receiver of sex acts. Because of that "lithosexual" could potentially be interpreted as being related to this term. There has not been any consensus about the term, both in the asexual and lesbian community. There is no apparently evidence that the specific term "lithosexual" was ever commonly used by lesbians.

The definition is NOT about wanting to give sexual pleasure without reciprocation, the definition is about not being able to get to the point of actually having sex for pleasure because as soon as any form of attraction seems to be reciprocated all desire is lost, lithosexual. There has not been lithosexual consensus about the term, lithosexual, both in the asexual and lesbian community. And that was all the smiley was jesting about.

Lithosexuality is a sexual orientation referring to people who may experience sexual attraction but do not want these feelings reciprocated. A lithosexual person experiences sexual attraction to other people, regardless of gender, but do not want these feelings reciprocated because they are not comfortable with the idea of a sexual relationship, or because the idea of mutual attraction is unwanted to them. It is also possible that the sexual attraction fades as soon as they find out the other person is also sexually attracted to them. Lithosexuality is on the asexual spectrum and belongs to the lesbian and asexual communities. This means that a lithosexual person is also an asexual person. The definition of the Ancient Greek root "litho" is "stone" or "rock.

The asexual spectrum or asexual umbrella is a group of sexual orientations that all fall under the umbrella term of asexual. Individuals on the asexual spectrum may completely lack sexual attraction or feel it so little that they relate more to the asexual experience than to the allosexual experience. The common link between individuals on the asexual spectrum is that they do not feel the "standard" amount of sexual attraction or feel it in the "standard" way. Individuals on the asexual spectrum are often referred to as "ace-spec" for short. Ace-spec individuals can have any romantic orientation , including aromantic. While there are numerous ace-spec identities, some are more common, like asexual, demisexual , and greysexual , and can stand on their own as identities. Other common ace-spec identities include:. Some identities in the asexual spectrum are microlabels or identities that fall under the umbrella but cannot stand on their own and must be used in addition to another ace-spec label. Some common ace-spec microlabels include:.

Lithosexual

Describes a person whose romantic orientation is highly fluid or changing over time. An abroromantic person experiences their romantic attraction as shifting among romantic orientations, for instance, homoromantic, heteroromantic and biromantic. Learn More. Noun A shortened term for a person who identifies as asexual, meaning someone who experiences little or no sexual attraction or sexual desire. Asexuality is a sexual orientation distinct from a chosen behavior such as celibacy or sexual abstinence. Acronym An acronym meaning Assigned Female at Birth. Noun A term used to describe a person's gender, based on their innate understanding of themselves -- as opposed to the gender they were assigned at birth.

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You enjoyed it, therefore you desired it. Your browser does not support the audio element. Recommended Posts. These colours refer to 1 sensitivity, life, leadership, and community, 2 lithosexuality 3 varied relationships, loyalty, honour, 4 sexuality and 5 asexuality. You can't just have it all ways in the hopes that one of them will make you right. See you then! It bears repeating that "no desire for sex" is NOT the same as "no free, informed consent to sex". Kaira's understanding of that definition: Meet Bob. There are a number of ways you can support a lithosexual person. Same way as I have always explained it: their desire for partnered sexual intimacy is overriding their gender preferences as there are no women available to have sex with. No need for the fancy label lol. Lith dating ad 2 - Calling all asexuals. I'm assuming we must have hit an unbreachable language barrier though because I've described this multiple times though and you don't seem to be able to comprehend what I'm saying. So, let me ask a pointed question:. Current Wiki.

While part of me doesn't care what I label myself because I'm really not sharing it with anyone, the other part of me wants to find out exactly what's going on with me and find a term that can fit my identity the closest. Right now the best thing I an find is aposexual.

But that's still sexual and as far as I'm concerned, doesn't need a special label. A person who identifies as Lithosexual is someone who experiences sexual attraction towards others, but once the sexual attraction is reciprocated, they feel repulsed and start to lose attraction. I feel like sexual fantasies not experimental sexual fantasies, where you are only masturbating to it, to see if it does anything for you. Since these definitions only speak about one's sexuality, and since gender and sexuality are different categories, there are no specific pronouns for lithosexual or akoisexual people. So, still technically ace. Bob could be born in ancient Greece, where it was seen as morally acceptable to have sex slaves. View all posts by Theo. Making more sense now? Terminology Lithosexuality is on the asexual spectrum and belongs to the lesbian and asexual communities. And probably gets all unhappy and grumpy when the ace is like 'bro I don't want this shit anyway so it's just not working' or even worse, the ace just has to lie there and take it while Bob who thought he may be ace before pounds away at them. I do not need or desire you to do anything more than help me get you off because that's what gets me off that's me.